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When Things Don’t Go as Planned

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When faced with an undesired situation see the situation as not what you feel it is, but as e new possibility that you will choose it to be.  In doing so you are practicing shifting the experience or what is occurring for you to something else.  Something more uplifting, edifying and more desirable; something you can learn and grow from.

Everything we experience occurs to us in language as we describe the events and feelings, and interpret through language.  Everything can be changed in language by changing the way you speak about the experience, assigning new language to experience to create a new possibility of what is.

Practice creating your life with the language you chose to assign to your experiences.

Be blessed, be beautiful!  Love and Light.  Stay bright!

Roxanne Christian

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Being Authentic

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When you think of the word “Authentic”, what comes to mind?  Before reading on, take a moment to describe ways in which you are authentic. The Oxford Living Dictionary provides several definitions of “authentic”.  Here are a few: Of undisputed origin and not a copy; genuine; Based on facts; accurate or reliable; (in existentialist philosophy) Relating to or denoting an emotionally appropriate, significant, purposive, and responsible mode of human life.  List some ways in which you are genuine, original, reliable, emotionally appropriate, and a responsible human…

When you think of the word “Integrity”, what comes to mind?  Before reading on, take a moment to describe ways in which you are in integrity. The Oxford Living Dictionary provides several definitions of “integrity”.  Here are a few: The quality of being honest and having strong moral principles; The state of being whole and undivided; The condition of being unified or sound in construction.  List some ways in which you are honest, strong, whole, focused to a task or a conversation at hand, or feeling whole…

Let’s set a goal of seeing how long we can be an authentic person of integrity.  What would that look like, feel like, what would you be thinking, what kind of dialogue would you hold in your head, what would you do differently? Remember, being something is different than doing something.  In the being of something you just are.  You make it happen with no excuses (good or bad, true or false, real or not) it’s just you.  You think, feel, speak, and meditate on being the very thing you want.  You take certain actions that bring the intention about.  If the thing you chose to be authentic and in integrity with does not manifest as you intend, you can either accept it and move on (be okay with that choice), or you can set a new goal to create that authentic person of integrity you desire and chose to be.  Just practice being true and follow through with the goal until it happens.  Start small, and then go big!  Involve someone to keep you accountable, or to simply remind you of who you chose to BE.

Love and Light.  Stay Bright!  Roxanne Christian~

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Dreams Come True

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Hello and welcome great individual!   This song is called Dreams Come True.  Be encouraged to take some time to write down some of your goals.  Short term, intermediate, and long term.  Make sure your goals are specific and clear with an ideal deadline.  Do your best to make them measurable.  For example, the frequency of how many times you will do something.  Maybe it’s the duration of how long you will do something, or possibly an interval.  For example, every other day I will…  Especially with your short terms goals tackle the easiest thing first.  You’ll get a sense of accomplishment, a quicker gratification that will propel momentum to keep you going.  Move beyond your fear.  Take a step if you dare!  Love and Light.  Stay bright!

Roxanne Christian

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