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Change Your Experience by Changing The Occurrence

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Try experimenting with altering your undesirable experiences by changing the way you perceive the experience.  Your actions, or your way of being and acting is a correlate of the way in which what you engage with occurs for you.  In other words, this statement is saying who you are is related to how you think, feel, speak, perceive, and interpret situations.  How you interact with your experiences.  In fact, how you interact with your experiences is how it occurs to you. We can shift our occurrences, or alter our undesirable experiences by changing the conversation of our situations or experiences.

Over the next few weeks, whenever something undesirable happens to you, try changing the conversation you have about it or how you interact with it.  Below are some tips or things you can be aware of to help the conversation be more edifying, productive, uplifting, and peaceful.

Ask yourself:

  • What is this experience teaching me
  • What are the facts about this situation (not how I feel about it, but what is actually happening)
  • Am I adding additional meaning to what is happening
  • Am I able to accept what is going on so I can move on
  • How can I bring peace to this situation
  • How can I be still and just listen in this experience
  • Can I try to let go of my position; justifying myself and condemning or invalidating another
  • Can I drop my ego even if I AM RIGHT and let go of being “right’ or “wrong” and just BE
  • Can I free myself and just chose the experience for what it is and what it isn’t

Experiment with the above questions when or even after an undesirable experience happens to see how it may alter the way in which it occurs for you, how you interact with it, and how you become from it.   Have fun with this.  Be light.  Free from too much thinking and seriousness.  Just experiment by having a different conversation of what is happening to you.

Be blessed, be beautiful.  Peace and love.

Roxanne Christian

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Follow Your Dreams

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Sometimes it’s so scary following your dreams. You occasionally catch yourself doubting the dream fulfilling. Even if you don’t doubt and you factually and logistically know your dreams can manifest, you shy away from how great and big your dream can be. Stepping into your higher self and manifesting your dreams can be intimidating. You’re not used to it, maybe you feel like you don’t deserve it. Maybe you feel isolated because most people around you aren’t thinking of life’s unlimited potential or possibilities.  You have to be accountable to yourself which is a discipline, consistency, and effort. Nothing spectacular comes without much effort and determination. Hold on strong. Just as you are about to give up that’s when the breakthrough comes. The doors are opened. You just have to navigate your way through them. Stay encouraged. Stay focused. Stay blessed. Allow and embrace your dreams and success will manifest!  It is done now. Love and light. Stay bright.

Roxanne Christian 

Remember:
“Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” Dr. Martin Luther King jr. 
Take this stance as a practice:  “If I cannot do great things, I can do small things in a great way.” Dr. Martin Luther King jr. 
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